Televisions for $98 on Black Friday at Wal-Mart? Wow, I need
one! Wait….. No, I do not need another screen to put in front of my face. And does
anyone else, really? I know; some of you enjoy the thrill and tradition of
getting up early to fight the crowds to get those great deals that stores
dangle in front of you like a carrot in front of a donkey. I am happy that you
enjoy the chase. As the day nears,
though, and they have also tacked on White-Out Wednesday and opening early on
Thanksgiving evening to drive up profits, I wonder what do we really need for
Christmas?
After a week at the Methodist Hospital and Mayo Clinic in
Rochester with my daughter, I saw numerous people from all over the United
States and the world, who are fighting cancer and other diseases. I saw the
white-haired gentleman pushing himself to walk the halls, clinging to his IV
pole, his wife holding his other hand. A middle-aged man walked by,
nonchalantly carrying his urine bag. A teenager, face pale and puffy from her
illness, colorful scarf covering her head, curled up on a couch with her cell
phone as she listened to a volunteer play the grand piano in the lobby. An elderly mother was pushed in a wheelchair
by a daughter with love and concern etched on her face. A variety of nurses treated us with respect
and kindness. One young man, Bobbie, had tears in his eyes when the doctor said
the stomach tube must remain for one more night. Kindness abounds here, as
people shared their stories with me on the shuttle from hospital to hotel and
back, or in the waiting area. A thin young man shared with me yesterday that when the cab he called did not come to take him to an appointment, the owner of EconoLodge, where we are staying when not at the hospital, drove him there.
That is what we really need for Christmas. KINDNESS.
Be kind to one another. Spend time with your friends and family without the
reflection of a screen on your face. Say I love you to the people you care
about, or, better yet, show them how much you care through your actions. That
is what we need for Christmas. Not a $98 TV.